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New Blogger Insights: 3 Things I’ve Learned in My First 3 Months!

Start a blog, they said.  It’ll be fun, they said.

Well… it was, and it is.  Fun, exciting, and satisfying.  But there were a lot of things “they” didn’t mention.

Blogging is *so* popular.  In July 2018, on just blogs connected with WordPress, there were nearly 80 million posts.  (Source)  And in the vast world that is the blogosphere, it is *tough* for any individual blog to get noticed, let alone become popular and successful.

Since starting The Biblio Blonde this spring, I’ve been fortunate enough to read many good posts on how to grow your blog, tips for gaining followers and viewers, and advice for how and what to post.  And though I’ve learned a lot in a short time, I’m always thirsty for more.  Meanwhile, there are new bloggers starting up every day that are looking for those same resources.

As a “newish” blogger who hasn’t exactly hit the big time (yet?), but is still working… here are a few of the lessons I’ve learned so far.

Lesson 1:  You have to hustle for followers.  I think some people have the perception that if you want to start a blog, you set it up, post a few entries, and sit back and let people read and love your work.  I’m here to tell you… no.

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With all the content out there, chances that an audience will find your work is pretty slim.  So *you* have to go searching for your followers!  You can do this by promoting your blog to family and friends, then asking them to share it.  That won’t get you thousands of followers, but it’s a starting point.  You can also “build your platform” by promoting your work through social media.  Many bloggers are active on Instagram, Twitter, Pinterest, etc.  Interacting with other bloggers is also a great idea… we love to follow and support one another!

Audiences don’t build overnight, and mine is still nowhere near the size I’d like.  But if you keep writing good content, promoting your work, and joining in the blogging community (more on that later), it will eventually happen!

Lesson 2:  There’s a lot more to it than you think!  Waaaay back when blogging was a new thing (not quite the Stone Age, but a while ago), it was, in many cases, a way to keep a simple online journal.  Well, friends… this ain’t your grandma’s blogging world! (Truth?  My dear grandma wouldn’t have had the slightest idea what a blog was.  But I digress…)

Building and maintaining a blog, if you want to grow any sort of an audience, is much more than writing a few posts.  A savvy blogger is a researcher, a writer, a visual designer, a publicist, a networking professional, and more.  In fact, the term “blogger” has evolved so much from its beginning, and covers so much more.  Everyone will have pieces of this work that they enjoy more than others, but it’s all necessary for building your blog.

The downside of this is that you can end up spending a *lot* more time on it than you bargained for.  Some people set out intending for blogging to become a full time job… for others, it just accidentally turns into one.  Even though there is a lot to do for a successful blog, you can overdo it and get burned out very quickly if you don’t set some limits for yourself.

Lesson 3:  Community is key!  The *act* of blogging can be pretty solitary.  It’s not like working in an office and always having someone to chat with.  Most of the time, you’re on your own, writing.  But believe it or not, that doesn’t mean you’re really blogging by yourself.

When you get started as a blogger, one of the first things you should do is connect with other bloggers.  Follow their blogs, and connect with them on social media.  Read their work, learn from them, ask them questions.  Offer support to them, and most others will likely do the same for you.  The blogging community is fantastic about being open to building relationships, and I have received so much advice and support from people I’ve happened to connect with on WordPress, Instagram, or Twitter.  One of my biggest surprises was the sheer size of Twitter’s writing and blogging community!

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Blogging friends are always happy to lend a hand… um, or a foot.  Shoe?  Never mind.  Just go build your tribe.

A cautionary note that I feel I have to add: These relationships are two way streets. Don’t follow people on social media just to build your numbers, and then unfollow them.  Don’t promote your own blog to others but never read or comment on theirs.  It’s give and take.

When you connect with other bloggers, it enriches your blogging life like you wouldn’t believe.  And when you’re having a hard day, or need ideas, or even feel like you were crazy to start this project in the first place… your blogging friends, and that community you’ve built with them, will be one of your best resources!

So those are my small tidbits of wisdom… what lessons would you add?  Leave your thoughts in the comments!!


Midwest writer. Avid reader, coffee addict, wife, mother to a human and a canine. Blogging about books, the writing process, life's journey, and whatever else catches my attention like a shiny object.

28 thoughts on “New Blogger Insights: 3 Things I’ve Learned in My First 3 Months!

  1. Oh my gosh, there’s so much great wisdom here! “They” told me the same thing. I think they make a habit of holding things back just so they don’t have to suffer alone. xD

    Nobody warned me how much work it would be. I mean, it’s fun, don’t get me wrong, but it’s not a 15-minutes-a-week sort of a thing.

    Also, book bloggers in particular need to be warned about the effect it’ll have on their TBR pile. Sure, they might read a lot more books … but their TBR pile is also going to grow exponentially (and possibly evolve into a sentient being and eat them? Just me?) It’s the risk you take, following so many book bloggers. xD

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  2. I am newer to blogging and your advice about building a community is spot on. I hadn’t realized how important it is and how learning from others advice is key. Thanks for the useful tips!

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  3. Love this and so true! We are new bloggers too, been doing it since April and there have been things I could have never imagined and a huge one was #3. I didn’t consider the blogger community and it has been the best and biggest surprise, what an amazing supportive group! it has been a fun journey for us so far and who knows what it will become if anything but I just want us to always make sure we continue to have fun and enjoy it- I wish the same for you! xx

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  4. When I first started blogging (last winter), the first blogging community I connected with were book bloggers. They were so generous and helpful! I asked a million questions, and they patiently answered every one. I still follow all of those book bloggers and try to read and comment on all of their posts.

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  5. Thank you for the advice, I found it really helpful! You’ve made me seriously consider joining Twitter as I’m not on the platform but it sounds like a wonderful book blogging community.

    I think the biggest difficulty for me has been setting boundaries so my blog didn’t take over my life! Like you say, with writing, social media, designing and so much else to do, it can be tempting just to keep on going. Reducing my posting frequency to once a week and only blogging on certain days has really helped to make it stay enjoyable rather than a source of stress! 🙂

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  6. Woah, 80 million posts on WordPress?! I would never have imagined it to be that high! It’s so true that you have to put the work in and go looking for your followers though, it’s definitely not just a case of writing posts and sitting back waiting for the views and comments to roll in. People who don’t blog don’t seen to realise how difficult it can be! Great post!

    Emily x

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  7. Great insight! Blogging is fun but there’s tons of work involved– you have to invest your time, money and creativity. But it is worth it! I, myself, is a new blogger too! I just launched my second website and trying to do my best to do it right the second time around. Would really appreciate if you can take a look at it as well 🙂 Have a great day!!

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